The sexual position that gives greater ejaculatory control is the
WOMAN-ON-TOP position.

HOW IT'S DONE
You are on your back, legs together. She is on top of you, legs
spread, with the bulk of her weight distributed evenly between both knees. She lowers her vagina onto your penis.

HOW IT HELPS ERECTIONS LAST LONGER
The usual missionary position (man-on-top) is "work" for men. His
arms and legs have to support his weight to avoid crushing the
woman. This creates muscle tension in his shoulders, arms, back and legs. The tension further increases when he thrusts during
intercourse. That's why, in the missionary position, ejaculatory
control is harder than in any other position.

But when she's on top, you don't have to support her weight. You just lie there relaxed while she supports her weight by kneeling, which is comparatively effortless.

Besides being more relaxing, you also get a good look at her body. You can see her breasts dance with each thrust. :) In addition it frees your hands for sensual touching. You can fondle her breasts, caress her buttocks and thighs, or stimulate her clitoris.

Women enjoy this position too because it allows them to control the movement and depth of penetration.

Some women don't enjoy this position because they feel self-conscious about their bodies being exposed and in full view. If you think she may be uncomfortable ressure her that you love her body, or let her keep a bra, blouse or t-shirt on.

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SHIVA