Although every woman's sexual preferences are different, here are 20 questions that give a fairly accurate idea of how you rate as a lover. The questions have been drawn up after surveying women between 18 and 38 years about what they thought were must-have qualities in a lover.
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I try to create an environment that makes her relax. I say and do things that make her feel the workday has ended and it's time to relax. I try to minimize all interruptions. |
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I always undress her in a sensuous way |
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When I make love, I pleasure her whole body, every square inch of it, not just limiting to her mouth, breasts and genitals. |
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I never force her to do anything she is not comfortable doing |
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I always make sure I'm well groomed (nails trimmed, hands washed, fresh breath and no body odour) before making love |
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I enjoy giving her oral sex and I let her know that |
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I often caress, kiss and stimulate my partner even when I know it will not lead to sex, simply to give her pleasure |
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I have told her the part of her body that I find the biggest turn-on |
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I know the exact way to stimulate my partner to help her experience orgasm quickly |
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I have spontaneously made love to her in unexpected locations (kitchen, bathroom, car, etc) |
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I know what my partner’s ultimate sexual fantasy is |
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I am happy to let my lover take a dominant sexual role when she feels like it |
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I delay my ejaculation if necessary, so that she can get closer to experiencing orgasm. |
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I always make sure that my woman is satisfied after sex. If not through intercourse then using manual or oral means. |
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I constantly try to think of new ways of giving her pleasure |
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I know the exact way she loves to be kissed |
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My lover can easily give me feedback about my technique, without fear of hurting my feelings |
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I never impose intercourse on her. I do not enter her until she REALLY wants me inside. |
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If she doesn't feel like having sex, I willingly pleasure her in non-sexual ways like brushing her hair or giving her a facial massage. I know of at least 3 non-sexual ways to give her pleasure. |
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After sex, I don't instantly roll over and go to sleep or jump out of bed to watch tv or use the phone. I cuddle and hug her for a few minutes. |
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