All kinds of men - businessmen, students, artists, builders, doctors, architects, CEOs, sportsmen, engineers, even retired senior citizens. They come from various cultural and professional backgrounds, and in a variety of sizes and shapes - tall, short, bald, hairy.
And they come with just one single purpose - to know more about sex, specifically, to know how they can better please the women in their lives.
Here are some of the reasons they gave for attending the seminar:
An
engineer from Pune: "I know
there are tricks to make sex more fun for my wife and me, and
I want to learn as many of them as I can."
A real
estate agent from Mumbai : "I
have a loving wife who never complains, no matter how selfish
I am in bed. I have been wanting to learn what pleases women,
and I want to do those things for my wife."
A businessman
from Hyderabad : "In my culture
women are not comfortable describing what they want their men
to do during sex. So if there is some indirect way to get this
information, I would love to have it."
A textile
dealer from Thane : "I am
getting married next month, I don't want to be ignorant on my
wedding night. I want to know all the right things to do and
then go in there and do it!"
A consultant
from Kolkata : "As a man
it's easy for me to get my release during sex, but if there
is some way for me to increase my wife's satisfaction, I would
be grateful for the info."
Do we need sex coaching in the land of the Kama Sutra?
Vatsyayan wrote in the Kama Sutra that Kama
(the art of sensual love-making) was a subject which required to
be learned,
and could not be left unstudied.
He further affirmed that both men
and women need to learn this.
There was a time in ancient India,
when along with the great treatises of Yoga, Ayurveda and Vedanta,
the Kama Sutra was much read and discussed.
Was it the orthodoxy of the mughals that restrained
free discussion about love-making? Was it the Brahmanical influence
with its strong elements of asceticism that created constraints
and rigidities? We do not know for sure, but somewhere along the
way we stopped learning how to be great lovers.
What information will you provide at the seminar?
Here's an overview of what the seminar offers :
Safer
sex: The dangers of indiscriminate,
unprotected sex. Common sexually transmitted diseases, their symptoms and
treatment.
Sexual and reproductive anatomy overview
In male:
penis, testicles, prostate and sperm.
In
female: clitoris, vaginal lips, vagina, perineum, cervix, uterus, ovaries and fallopian tubes.
Close-up
view of female genitalia
You will see close-up views of a woman's vulva: the inner and outer
lips, the clitoris, the vaginal opening, the mons pubis and the perineum. Demonstrated up close, in a frank manner using training aids.
Differences
between men and women:Find out how
men and women approach and experience sex differently. Example :
Men
will usually decide based on a woman's looks, women usually decide based
on how she's been treated.
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EXAMPLES
What women find sexy in a man Ask most men what women find sexy in a man, and the typical answers are "good looks ", "good body", "impressive equipment". But every woman knows there is no connection between how a man looks and how he loves. What women really find sexy in a man is something else entirely, it's about how he moves, how he reacts and and how he interacts with her.
Sexual fears of women Most men are so caught up in their own fears they don't realize that women have sexual fears too. To give her absolute pleasure you have to know what a woman enjoys most AND fears most about sex. We discuss the 3 basic fears most women have about sex.
Seduction : arousing her mind Learn the art of
seducing a woman's mind by romancing and relaxing
her. Unless a woman is first aroused mentally, it's almost impossible for her to get physcially aroused.
Foreplay
: arousing her body
Do you know her hotspots from head to toe? We will show you a woman's
18 erogenous zones using a life-size dummy and teach you delightful
ways to awaken them using fingers, tongue, lips, teeth, breath, penis and more.
The
art of touching Knowing how and where to touch her is key to mastering the ability to arouse a woman to heights of pleasure. We will show you delightful ways to touch a woman.
The
art of kissing If you kiss a woman well, and kiss her the
way she wants to be kissed, you are halfway to your destination of having
her melt in your arms. We point out the most common mistakes men make while kissing a woman, and we teach you 3 sensuous kissing techniques (we make attendees practice it on the back of their palm until they get it). Plus, lots of tips and tricks that make it more pleasurable for both of you.
Finger sex
Tips and tricks to give a woman amazing pleasure between her legs using just your fingers. Also : common mistakes men make while using their fingers (which could turn her off, or even hurt her).
The
art of oral sex
Delicious ways to use your tongue, lips, and fingers in, on
and around a woman's vulva. Also,
misconceptions about oral sex cleared.
3 kinds of female orgasms
I will share with you the techniques to help a woman express the 3 kinds of orgasms : Clitoral, Vaginal (or G-spot) and Cervical
Sex
positions
We discuss the 6 basic positions for sexual intercourse and the advantages of each. Also, thrusting techniques that enhance her pleasure.
Afterplay A lot of men just roll over and fall asleep after sex or show rushed behaviour like getting dressed or using the phone. It takes just a few minutes to express the loving, tender reassurance that all women need after sex.
Longer
lasting erections Involuntary ejaculation is the number-one sex problem affecting young men. We discuss the common causes of premature ejaculation and practical exercises that helps improve your ejaculatory control.
Foot
massage
How to pamper her with the perfect foot-rub.
Making love to a virgin As the first man to make love to her, you can put her on the road to a fulfilling sex life or you can fill her head with all kinds of sexual anxieties. The suggestions in this section will help maximize pleasure for you both.
What
women hate 10 things you should definetely avoid doing if
you don't want to turn-off a woman during sex.
Sexuality
myths & facts Common myths
related to sex and the facts that demolish them.
What
the law states Overview of what sexual acts are
illegal as per the Indian penal code.
Start
to finish A suggested sequence of techniques to make love to a woman
from start to finish, from undressing her right upto afterplay. Like a step-by-step dummies' guide. You can use this sequence exactly as it is, or you can add your own touches to it.
What will I NOT find at the seminar?
The seminar is NOT meant to treat any physical
condition that you may have; for that it is best to consult your
physician
There will be NO nudity and NO live models
There will NOT be any kind of sexual touching, stimulation or titillation
There will NOT be any kind of pornographic
videos or photographs displayed
What can your seminar teach me that a sex manual cannot?
Books are a great resource for learning any skill, no doubt.
But the INTERACTIVITY of the Better Lover seminar cannot be matched by any other medium of learning.
At the seminar you will touchand feel a realistic life-size vulva, made of a fleshy skin-like material.
You will learn ways to touch its various parts in ways that give a
woman maximum pleasure.
Seminar attendees are surprised to learn how delicately women expect to be touched, especially the vulva and the clitoris. Quite different from the rough manner in which men handle their penises.
Attendees learn to KISS by kissing the back of their own hand, while the instructor supervises and corrects their technique.
Techniques are taught in an interactive manner...until attendees GET IT and demonstrate to the seminar conductor that they get it. Every attendee leaves the seminar, not just with the theory but with the actual competence of DOING it right.
NOTE: Only dummy replicas are used at the seminar. NO LIVE MODELS.
Why can't I get the same information from a porn video?
Most male pornography is not a good teacher of effective sex techniques
because of 3 main reasons:
It has been primarily created for visual stimulation for males, and therefore largely feature genital-based lovemaking, not the whole-body love making that women prefer.
The female actors in the movie are paid to scream
in delight even if they are not enjoying it. This makes male viewers
expect the same unrealistic responses from their partners in real
life, and are disappointed when they don't get them.
Most porn is targeted only towards
men, therefore a woman's needs and expectations are not taken
into account.
My partner can tell me what she likes...why do I need a seminar?
If you have a partner who is comfortable enough to tell you, and perhaps even show you what pleases her during sex, you're a lucky man.
But many women will not say it. Women WANT men to know what pleases them sexually but usually hesitate to tell
them in a direct way.
Yes, we do offer private seminars. Please click here for details.
Do you offer seminars for women ?
We will shortly begin training an all-women team to conduct seminars exclusively for female participants. Submit your contact info here to be informed when we launch seminars for women. If you are subscribed to our newsletter you will be informed when we launch the same.
When will you have the seminar in my city/country?
Please submit your request here. If there are enough requests for the location, we will consider conducting the
seminar there.
Would you organize this for young men who can't afford your fees?
With pleasure. We believe it's important that all young men have this information. If you are an organization that can organize a sufficiently large number of young men (at least 100) who are eager to learn this, a hall with comfortable seating, an LCD projector and refreshments for the attendees, we will do this seminar for whatever amount you can afford.
